I'm going
to be another year older so it's only natural for me to reflect.
What
have I learned so far? Here it goes:
*The
person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with you probably won't.
*Life
isn't fair and it can suck. But never give up because the reward makes all the
less than fair float away
*There
is always going to be someone better than you, so be the best with what you
got.
*Most
people don't do the right thing especially when it's difficult.
*Beauty
is literally from the inside out. You find when someone has a beautiful soul
they have this inner light that makes them more beautiful on the outside.
*Not
everyone has the same morals and code of ethics. Don't bend yours they make you
who you are.
*Your
heart is stronger than you think. You can break a bone but you cannot break
your heart! Someone can make your heart hurt but, its not broken. It will heal in time.
*Sleep
isn't overrated. You need it especially if you want to have friends.
*When
someone does something nice a simple thank you isn't a suggestion.
*Don't
settle because of fear. That's not living life to your full potential.
*Stepping
on people to get ahead never turns out the way you want. You will find yourself
alone with remorse.
*Before
taking criticism first determine whom it is coming from. Some people just are mean to be mean. Others actually care and want to help.
*Fighting
with crazy people and stupid people is pointless they are never going to get
it. However, sometimes it can be a little hilarious.
*Your
heart knows how you feel before you do.
*Everyone
has their own Jiminy Cricket the smart people listen to it the dumb people
stifle it.
*Find
what matters most to you and let go of things that don’t. You will see you have a lot more free time
and you smile more.
*Which
brings me to my next point. Wrinkles
around your eyes and mouth are a sign of a happy life. So keep smiling.
*The
minute all women realize everyone has cellulite the better we will all feel in
a bathing suit.
*As you
grow you will understand that life is about quality not quantity.
*Don’t
sacrifice who you are for anyone or anything. Once you do the world gets a
little dimmer.
*Glitter
isn’t gaudy it’s fabulous
*When
you find the people that matter most to you don’t let them go. Unless you have a restraining order then it’s
time to give up.
*Cake is
to women as beer is to men. Good in
moderation for their waistline.
*Cupcake is portable cake with less guilt. Light beer watered down beer with less fat.
*If you
ask someone who is genuinely happy what their secret is they say exercise and
finding the love of their life. The real
answer they are wanting to say is “frequent dance parties”
*Everyone
is going to go through things in their lives.
It’s not the challenges that make the man it’s how they act during them
that do.
*Actions
speak louder than words.
Caring what
people think is pointless because they are simply caring what you are thinking
of them. So nobody is thinking about
anyone else but himself or herself in someone else's eyes.
*When
you are wrong apologize and ask for forgiveness. If you don’t get it you tried
to make it right.
*Help
others see their potential what they do with it is up to them.
*BUT
MOST OF ALL: Be kind to one another. Hug longer kiss, laugh, if you love
someone tell them before its too late, say goodbye to the ones that have moved
on, don’t hold anger, forgive those who seek it, and congratulate those who
find the one even if its not you. Life
will work out. You cannot see it now but the reason is in the future. Look forward to that but don’t miss the
adventure that is right in front of you.
Because before you know it you are another year older.