Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Life lessons:)




     I'm going to be another year older so it's only natural for me to reflect.
What have I learned so far? Here it goes:
*The person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with you probably won't.
*Life isn't fair and it can suck. But never give up because the reward makes all the less than fair float away
*There is always going to be someone better than you, so be the best with what you got.
*Most people don't do the right thing especially when it's difficult.
*Beauty is literally from the inside out. You find when someone has a beautiful soul they have this inner light that makes them more beautiful on the outside.
*Not everyone has the same morals and code of ethics. Don't bend yours they make you who you are.
*Your heart is stronger than you think. You can break a bone but you cannot break your heart! Someone can make your heart hurt but, its not broken. It will heal in time.
*Sleep isn't overrated. You need it especially if you want to have friends.
*When someone does something nice a simple thank you isn't a suggestion.
*Don't settle because of fear. That's not living life to your full potential.
*Stepping on people to get ahead never turns out the way you want. You will find yourself alone with remorse.
*Before taking criticism first determine whom it is coming from.  Some people just are mean to be mean.  Others actually care and want to help.
*Fighting with crazy people and stupid people is pointless they are never going to get it. However, sometimes it can be a little hilarious.
*Your heart knows how you feel before you do.
*Everyone has their own Jiminy Cricket the smart people listen to it the dumb people stifle it.
*Find what matters most to you and let go of things that don’t.  You will see you have a lot more free time and you smile more.
*Which brings me to my next point.  Wrinkles around your eyes and mouth are a sign of a happy life.  So keep smiling.
*The minute all women realize everyone has cellulite the better we will all feel in a bathing suit.
*As you grow you will understand that life is about quality not quantity.
*Don’t sacrifice who you are for anyone or anything. Once you do the world gets a little dimmer.
*Glitter isn’t gaudy it’s fabulous
*When you find the people that matter most to you don’t let them go.  Unless you have a restraining order then it’s time to give up.
*Cake is to women as beer is to men.  Good in moderation for their waistline.
*Cupcake is portable cake with less guilt. Light beer watered down beer with less fat.
*If you ask someone who is genuinely happy what their secret is they say exercise and finding the love of their life.  The real answer they are wanting to say is “frequent dance parties”
*Everyone is going to go through things in their lives.  It’s not the challenges that make the man it’s how they act during them that do.
*Actions speak louder than words.
Caring what people think is pointless because they are simply caring what you are thinking of them.  So nobody is thinking about anyone else but himself or herself in someone else's eyes.
*When you are wrong apologize and ask for forgiveness. If you don’t get it you tried to make it right.
*Help others see their potential what they do with it is up to them.
*BUT MOST OF ALL: Be kind to one another. Hug longer kiss, laugh, if you love someone tell them before its too late, say goodbye to the ones that have moved on, don’t hold anger, forgive those who seek it, and congratulate those who find the one even if its not you.  Life will work out. You cannot see it now but the reason is in the future.  Look forward to that but don’t miss the adventure that is right in front of you.  Because before you know it you are another year older.